Mother’s day …………should not be treated just for celebration but we should take it as a reminder & a bell to awake, revive, recognise and identify our self that how we grown up?
And this love should not be for 24 hours a day – 7 days a week – 30 days in a month or 365 days in a year but whole the life till our last – it’s a blessing for those who enjoys the presence of mother and feels happiness at home, though she is not doing anything but her overwhelming love with everyone at home adds sweet taste among family members living under the dome.
Of course our bringing up did not go automatically but there is/ was someone or the authority behind our raise who cared us – who nursed us – who fed us – who supported & helped us to live and stay healthy.
This is the Mother who enabled and ensured that we may live dynamically, energetically& determined to succeed in our life - who adorned us with the worldly needs materialistically and religiously and that’s why we are here to see the beautiful world with our own eyes – for sparkling and glittering life - for our gold and glory she sacrificed and reduce her plans and jumped over our needs.
It is mother who cared always for our progression and prosperity who preferred us on top of her needs - ignored her demands and honoured ours. She kept her desire away, preferred prioritized ours with the only approach to materialize compromising her requirements for our betterment and advancement.
Therefore it should be our first and foremost duty to respect our ‘’Mother’’ – we should care for her needs as she did for us – we should help and support her as she remained involved - her contribution & the services she rendered for us (from any point of view) should not be ignored but honor always till our last.
From our busiest time we should spare some time to sit with our Mother to look at her & embrace her and ask
- Do you need anything Mom?
- Can I help you Mom?
- Can I take you to the Doctor?
- Did you take your breakfast why not ate last night?
- Tell me what do you want to eat?
- Why don’t you go with us Mom for outing as we go?
- Do you want to go somewhere which you like we are ready to take you Mom?
- Why don’t we should make new dress for you the dress what we make in winter and summer for us?
- What DVD/ CDs you like Mom any special book, drama and events if you want to see tell me Mom?
- Ok coming Sunday we will go to aunt house your sister Mom.
- Let’s go in cousin’s wedding coming Saturday night.
- Let’s go for Pizza/ MacDonald.
- Take some sweet Mom which you like.
- Coming Sunday we will go beach and will dine in a big restaurant etc.
These are the favor we can do with our mother as we are mature - the help and support what she extended - now she needs from us – so come ahead and do it not in words or writing something at time line but do it practically.
If you don’t respond to your mother – mind it you will be accounted for before Creator who created this universe who created parents and who became the reason of our coming in the world.
We should always salute to our ‘’Mother’’ & be remembered her for her unstinted & unparalleled support when we were like a piece of flesh where she could strangulate or throw but she did not do and brought up us as a deterrent and made us an anvil so that we can counter and face the vagaries of not only whether but the treatment of our surrounding & the society where we breath.
A mother's body remembers her babies-the folds of soft flesh, the softly furred scalp against her nose - Each child has its own entreaties to body and soul………Barbara Kingslover.
Art is the child of nature in whom we trace the features of the mothers face……… Henry Wadsworth Longefellow.
Whereas Al Mighty Allah says in Quran in Version Al Isra/ Al Israel at Ayah 23 & 24
Thy Lord hath decreed that ye worship none but Him and that ye be kind to Parents whether one or both of them attain old age in thy life – say not to them a word of contempt, nor repel them, but address them in terms of honor.
And out of kindness, Lower to them the wing of humility and say ‘’My Lord! Bestow on them Thy Mercy even as they cherished me in childhood’’
And in version Luqman at Ayah 14 ‘’and we have enjoined on man (to be good) to his parents; in travail upon travail did this mother bear him. And in years twain was his weaning ;( hear the command) ‘’show gratitude to Me and to thy Parents; to me is (thy final) goal.